I've been trying to process through some thoughts from a women's conference I went to on Saturday. Several women from my church drove out to Sarasota to hear Tara Barthel speak on "Women and Peacemaking-a Journey of Grace". It was a great day of being reminded of the Gospel and our call to resolving conflict in our lives and seeking lasting peace. She talked about how we tend towards making hypocrites out of our children when it comes to conflict...well, it was actually a quick point she made, but it stuck with me...probably b/c our kids have been fighting a lot lately and I've been thinking and praying through how to address it better. The fact that we "force" our kids to apologize to each other, when in reality there are a lot of times that they really aren't sorry for what they've done...probably just sorry for being caught. And then, to have the other child say that they forgive their sibling for what they've done, when in reality...they're mumbling out "I forgive you" with a bad attitude. There is definitely something to be said about creating a habit of apologizing and forgiving, but there's also something to be said about taking those moments of conflict and using them as teaching moments to remind them (and myself) that we forgive because Christ has forgiven us!.....not just b/c mommy told you that you need to. Getting to the heart issue with the kids (especially the big kids) has been a challenge for me lately...but this peacemaking conference was an encouragement to me in the midst of it.
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
My 3 girls....and some twin shots.
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Tuesday, February 26, 2008
random stuff....
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Monday, February 25, 2008
keeping busy...
Today tom and I made yo-yo balloons for the first grade fundraiser...we brought them home so we could both work on them in the comfort of our home....here are the 3 little ones helping us out. :)
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Wednesday, February 20, 2008
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Tuesday, February 12, 2008
the kids and orange-picking!!
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Sunday, February 3, 2008
Ramen....
After I posted the picture of Leighton last night, Tom and I went searching for pictures of the other kids with ramen noodles. We found a blurry one of AJ....Kylie and Josey were pre-digital camera when we took their pictures. :)
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